The Opportunity to Live with Uncertainty

The Opportunity to Live with Uncertainty

The metaphor of our situation as a marathon remains with me. “Without having been able to prepare for this marathon, what strategies would you use to be in the race, survive the race, and finish?” ______________________________________________ Once I started to ask...
Who Will Care for My Dog?

Who Will Care for My Dog?

The metaphor of our situation as a marathon remains with me. “Without having been able to prepare for this marathon, what strategies would you use to be in the race, survive the race, and finish?” ______________________________________________   I am very curious to...
Eat on the Run

Eat on the Run

The metaphor of our situation as a marathon remains with me. “Without having been able to prepare for this marathon, what strategies would you use to be in the race, survive the race, and finish?” ______________________________________________ I couldn’t write without...
Help Anyone You Can

Help Anyone You Can

The metaphor of our situation as a marathon remains with me. “Without having been able to prepare for this marathon, what strategies would you use to be in the race, survive the race, and finish?” ______________________________________________   Greg Schnupp, Owner,...
Be an Introvert

Be an Introvert

The metaphor of our situation as a marathon remains with me. “Without having been able to prepare for this marathon, what strategies would you use to be in the race, survive the race, and finish?” ______________________________________________ Joanne Lacompski, friend...
Listen to Your Pain

Listen to Your Pain

The metaphor of our situation as a marathon remains with me. “Without having been able to prepare for this marathon, what strategies would you use to be in the race, survive the race, and finish?” ______________________________________________ Five Lessons from...
Strategies for Plodding the Course

Strategies for Plodding the Course

This is a marathon – have you done the training? Smarter people than me have said:‘”By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.’” ~ Benjamin Franklin Unfortunately, when a crisis arises, the time to plan is minimal. If we didn’t plan when we could,...
Bouncing and Boiling Over

Bouncing and Boiling Over

The quest for certainty blocks the search for meaning. Uncertainty is the very condition to impel man to unfold his powers. Erich Fromm   As the weeks turn into a month, the initial excitement of being with our spouses, children, pets, and roommates will fade....
The Opportunity to Reflect and Rediscover

The Opportunity to Reflect and Rediscover

“In the night full of pain and darkness be a candle spreading light until the dawn.” ~ Rumi This is a time to go within and develop yourself. We each have gifts that are relevant for this current challenge. Some formative events in your life have contributed to your...
Where Are You, 1 to 10?

Where Are You, 1 to 10?

  “What can you do today to create a world of possibility beyond today’s current reality?”~ Leslie Yerkes What is good for the goose is good for the gander. I like asking questions and learning about others. I especially relish discovering that they already know what...
Wounds that Never Show

Wounds that Never Show

“There are wounds that never show on the bodythat are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.” ― Laurell K. Hamilton, Mistral’s Kiss   In the not too distant past, after a very stressful (yet important) time in my life when the demands of the day...
There is a Season

There is a Season

“It’s when you’re acting selflessly that you are at your bravest.” — Veronica Roth   I know that it is the season of my life and my age that I am facing a rising level of illness, dying and death in my circle of family, friends, and acquaintances. Each loss...
Facing a Pandemic

Facing a Pandemic

When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news my mother would say to me, “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.”  — Mister Rogers Each of us needs to decide who we will be when facing a crisis. I tend to stay really...
Are You Good in a Crisis?

Are You Good in a Crisis?

What is your first instinct when experiencing difficult, challenging, and even dangerous situations?   I don’t spend a lot of time worrying. I tend to take action on the things that concern me or need to be addressed. I know much of this behavior is my...
Leadership, Skiing, and Snowboarding

Leadership, Skiing, and Snowboarding

“Snowboarding is an activity that is very popular with people who do not feel that regular skiing is lethal enough.” ~ Dave Berry   As I age, one of my personal goals is to keep myself fit so I can continue to ski. I exercise all year with a special...
Take My Advice?

Take My Advice?

“Giving advice is like seeing an elephant in someone’s path and suggesting they remove it.Heeding advice requires forcing the elephant to budge. Huge difference.”  ― Richelle E. Goodrich This week, I found myself in a unique position. Instead of giving advice I was on...
Sugar is Not My Friend

Sugar is Not My Friend

No sugar tonight in my coffee No sugar tonight in my tea No sugar to stand beside me No sugar to run with me  — The Guess Who My colleague Randy and I were talking on New Year’s Eve this year. We shared well wishes, conducted a little work, expressed our gratitude for...
The Coconut Corner

The Coconut Corner

A multi- generational Hawaiian businessthat understands the power of the 4 Ps   “You’ll never have a product or price advantage again. They can be too easily duplicated. But a strong customer service culture cannot be copied.” – Jerry Fritz In 2002 a colleague...
Politics in Bed and Writing in the Tub

Politics in Bed and Writing in the Tub

    Politics in Bed and Writing in the Tub   “Even in the most peaceful surroundings, the angry heart finds quarrel. Even in the most quarrelsome surroundings, the grateful heart finds peace.” — Zoe Zantanmata   Talking about politics in bed might not be the...
We Were Dancing and then We Were Not

We Were Dancing and then We Were Not

About conflict with a colleague   “Rejections will redirect you to more exciting roads. When you think your life is falling apart, it’s usually falling together in disguise. Your search will throw you on journeys you never would have dreamt of, in your mind and in the...
Life is the Teacher

Life is the Teacher

Life is the Teacher   “Be a reflection of what you’d like to see in others. If you want love, give love. If you want honesty, give honesty. If you want respect, give respect. You get in return, what you give.”   ― Author Unknown   My day started with a strong...
Bathing in the Pool of Shared Knowledge

Bathing in the Pool of Shared Knowledge

      Bathing in the Pool of Shared Knowledge   “Your brain takes its shape gradually  from what you routinely rest your mind upon.” ~  Rick Hanson, Just One Thing I find myself sitting in a workshop as a participant and not a facilitator. The content...
Where do you take your inspiration?

Where do you take your inspiration?

     Where do you take your inspiration?   “In order to understand the world, one has to turn away from it on occasion.” ― Albert Camus, The Minotaur   When I find I am alone with just myself, I seize that time to think about my values, my decisions, the people...
Walk on the Wild Side

Walk on the Wild Side

The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” ― Joseph Campbell   Have you ever taken an intentional trip to a place that would require you to let go of your cell phone and connectivity? A place so different from you own that it resulted in your slowly...