This is a marathon – have you done the training?


Smarter people than me have said:
‘”B
y failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.’”

~ Benjamin Franklin


Unfortunately, when a crisis arises,
the time to plan is minimal. If we didn’t plan when we could, then we will be running to catch up.

I believe that life has been your teacher and that the events of your life and the experiences of those around you could cumulatively become the plan and ‘marathon training’ that you need at this moment.

None of us have prepared for this exact situation. However, ask yourself: ‘What in your lifetime of experience has provided you with the opportunity to learn how to deal with the elements of this crisis? And with whom around you can you engage minds and vital experience to think, plan, and then do what needs to be done in a situation in which none of us are experts?

Far from being a marathon runner I am plodding the course by:

Breaking it down into smaller pieces. and  . . . Pausing.

Einstein said, ““Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”

I am:

  • Engaging as much information and as many people as possible while making the decisions in the time frame necessary.
  • Finding my grounding. Using my values to measure the rightness of my direction.
  • Communicating, communicating, and communicating some more.

And:

  • Demonstrating my care and concern for each person, each decision, and each action. Keeping the long-view in focus, asking, ‘Will this decision and action hold up seven years from now? What consequences will it create?’


If you had to jump into
a marathon and run the race without the training, what would be your strategy?

A paraplegic climber was making his ascent on a difficult mountain that would challenge good climbers without his disability. When asked, “How do you manage? What makes this impossible feat possible for you?’ He responded, ‘I climb, one handhold at a time. I do not look at the summit but simply plan my next move.’

 Let’s take inspiration from this climber. Let’s live one day at a time. Let’s make the best of each day and each interaction. Let’s plan to be better for having made this journey. None of us is exempt from the experience. Within this marathon there will be time to pause and plan how we will respond, recover, and be prepared. Be relevant to the moment. Be innovative and adapt. Seize this opportunity to run a race that you can be proud of having the courage to engage. It won’t be without suffering or loss. At times we will have to walk. I may even skip and sing along the way. But giving up is not an option.

Cultivate hope but turn it into action, as another role model of mine said, “It takes as much energy to wish as it does to plan.” Eleanor Roosevelt.

In this marathon of the times, be safe, be well, and be kind.

 

Leslie

PS. I have sought out seven of the many people whose opinions I value and asked them to answer the same question about the marathon we find ourselves in. The blogs with their answers start tomorrow and end a week from Friday. I hope you’ll find what these folks have to say to be interesting. And valuable.